Apartment for Rent - No Driving Required

I was playing on Craig's list and learned that there are several apartments for rent within a few blocks of my office.  My office is in a small town - a few thousand people - much bigger than the village I'll be leaving.  It's only about 40 minutes from a small city.  I've been thinking about moving to that city.  But the idea of being able to walk to work everyday - hmmmm.  It's very appealing.  

The apartment requires a one year lease.  I could try it for a year.  Rather than a 45 minutes drive to work, I would have a five minute walk.  More exercise, less money for gas.  And if I walked to work, I would then walk to the courthouse - even more exercise.  I could also walk to the grocery store.  

It would be a baby step.  From lonely, barren village to town with churches, a library, a coffee shop, and a one picture movie house.  Only 40 minutes from a city with much more to offer.  Why not jump right into the city?  I'm not sure.  This will take some thought.

Living in a Small Town Bothers Me Because

There is unending natural beauty here.  But here's the downside for me:

Why is Wyalusing my favorite park, and not Pikes Peak or Effigy Mounds?

Because I like solitude.  I like to retreat. I love the city for the same reason.  In the city, I can be a nameless stranger.  In small town america, where every body knows your name, it feels like there is no retreat.  I think you need to be very strong, or unflawed, or immune from the criticism of others to live in a small town and I am none of these things.
If I want to live here, I must be strong.  And I am strong.  But, it takes life force and energy to stay strong in the face of  criticism and gossip.  I prefer to use my energy in other ways.

I live in a small town, and I am different.

Favorite Places & Creatures in the Driftless Area

A few of my favorite things

   Watching the Eagles Nest, Hatch, and Grow.  If you scroll down beneath the streaming video of the (now) baby eagles, you find information about the raptor project, and you can follow the path of one of last years eaglets.  I grew up in the sixties and seventies when DDT had all but decimated the eagle population.  I often see Bald Eagles as I drive through this area, and I am always awed by the experience.


Wyalusing State Park is at the confluence of the Mississippi and Wisconsin Rivers.  One of the main camping areas sits atop a bluff overlooking the rivers.  Wyalusing offers great hiking, breathtaking views, canoeing and kayaking, and more - without the crowds of most of the other Wisconsin state parks.    I studied for the bar exam here.  It's peaceful with plenty of picnic tables to serve as my desk, and great paths to walk when I needed to shake off the anxiety.

Not my favorites, but worth mentioning.  On the Iowa side of the river is Pikes Peak State Park.  It is usually more crowded than Wyalusing, but has some boardwalks that are easier to hike.  And the Effigy Mounds National Monument has a great visitor center and trails along the river bluffs where eagles are often seen.

All three of these parks sit on sacred land and have easily accessible effigy mounds.

Do I Need a Greenhouse?

Ok, I copied this from my weightwatchers blog.  On my WW blog, I tend to engage in stream of consciousness writing; I am often amazed at what I learn from letting go and writing.  I was planning this blog as a sort of travelogue of the driftless area, i.e., "come see how beautiful it is here and see the quirky, interesting things there are to see and do here and then I'll decide which driftless area community is best for me."  This morning, it really struck me that my search for a new place to land is as much about who I am and who I want to be as it is about the amenities or landscape of the different communities.

My Reflection on Dousman Pond, St. Feriole Island

WW Blog:   I went out of town on a business trip and actually lost a fraction of a pound! It helped that the business took me to La Crosse - a city with Kohl's and a mall. Instead of returning to my room to eat every night, I shopped and shopped. It was so much fun, and I have new clothes that I love. And, shopping involves walking so it was a win/win (even my pocketbook is thinner!). And I realized that if I lived in a bigger town/city (my current town just barely tops 700 people - 18,000 in the entire county), that I would be more active and involved. I was active and had a social, political and intellectual life, before we moved to the middle of nowhere albeit a very beautiful nowhere. Despite the physically and emotionally draining nature of my work project, I felt energized this week in a way I haven't in a very long time. Some people thrive where they are planted. Is it a character flaw that I need to be planted in the sun with a dose of miracle-gro?

Lone Boater on the Mississippi River

After writing this passage in my WW blog, I began to understand that I need to acknowledge and embrace a few things about myself:  First, it's not about the shopping, it's about the variety and the opportunity for choice that variety provides.  And it's not just variety of goods, it's the diversity of people that a larger locale provides.

I need people, and places to congregate with people - all sorts of people.  And, I need different places to work on projects and causes - with people, real, in the flesh people.  It's been almost twenty years since we moved to this beautiful, lonely place where I am a fish out of water. When we lived in Kenosha County (so close to Milwaukee and Chicago and places in between) I was a doer and a thinker and I loved it. I was the mother of four little ones, and I attended law school part time, and I had great friends.  I miss the Unitarian Church meetings, and classes for fun and learning, and I miss meeting friends for coffee to plan our next project or to just sit and talk. Here, in the beautiful place, I meet friends from work for lunch sometimes, but we're all so busy during the work day and after work, we all go home to our families in our different small communities and we shut the door.  Or I go to kids' sporting and school events and we talk about the weather or the kids but then I go home and shut the door - we (or maybe it's "I") don't congregate.

The Mississippi River is beautiful, but I don't want to be the lone boater anymore.  Even if the congested highway is less peaceful, and less beautiful, it is more me.

Blogging Class

http://www.susannahconway.com/

I signed up for an e-course in blogging "from the heart" with Susannah Conway.  It starts on Monday.  Earlier this year, I participated in Susannah's "Unravelling" course.  I enjoyed the course and started writing for pleasure, and taking more photos.  I also opened a flickr account and started this blog.  The blogging course seems like the next step and I'm looking forward to the people I'll meet and the projects I'll enjoy and the blog I'll create.  Stay tuned!

After the Track Meet

For those of you interested in the town of Boscobel and it's culture, I've added a few more photos of the Unique Cafe.  We ate there after the track meet last weekend.  All four boys were home and we all watched Danny compete.  It was a beautiful day, and my heart is so happy and full when all four boys are together.

A Movie & a Cuppa Something Hot

A movie and a then a cup of something hot.  That's my usual "relax and escape" afternoon.  Today it was Sherlock Holmes at the Blaine Theater, and a hot holstein steamer at the Timber Lane Coffee Shop across the street.  For such a small town, Boscobel supports some interesting places.  The Blaine Theater was a family owned operation until a few years ago when the owner, James Thiele, died at 87 years - still working.  His son, who died soon after, was still taking tickets.  Tickets are still only $3.00, the seats are more comfortable, and popcorn and treats are affordable.

The Timberlane is relatively new to Boscobel.  It offers a Starbucks like coffee and tea selection and sometimes soup and other food but it's not a full-service restaurant.  It has trivial pursuit on Thursdays, and music on Saturdays at six and nine p.m.  It has board games, books, and the weekly paper - the Boscobel Dial which has a large opinion page and all the local news item.  Every time I've been in there, there's been at least one or two groups of friends chatting.  They've added an outdoor seating are - can't wait to make use of it!

 If I'd wanted something more substantial, I probably would have opted for the Unique Cafe.  The Unique serves some great homemade soups and some interesting house specialties created by the owner who must be, well, a unique fellow. The last time I was there, the waitress regaled our table with stories of her pet bat.

No Rules

Law School Graduation Day With My Four Boys

Before Christmas, I signed up for Susannah Conway's e-course, "Unravelling the Soul."  The course has brought me back into the world of writing and photography and connecting with others.  No rules for this blog, just a place for me to share the stories and the photos that I want to share.  To start, here is one of my favorite photos: